"As the A.A. groups multiplied, so did anonymity problems. Enthusiastic over the spectacular recovery of a brother alcoholic, we'd sometimes discuss those intimate and harrowing aspects of his case meant for his sponsor's ear alone. The aggrieved victim would then rightly declare that his trust had been broken. When such stories got into circulation outside of A.A., the loss of confidence in our anonymity promise was severe. It frequently turned people from us. Clearly, every A.A. member's name - and story, too - had to be confidential, if he wished."
I started a Web Site in 1999 when I came back into the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous. Tripod decided to block me a few years ago , so I stopped writing, posting. SO I decided to take the posts I had there and put them here. Plus new ones I found on the net and shares of my own. Take what you need and pass on the rest! Blessings ds♥
Showing posts with label anonymity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anonymity. Show all posts
Saturday, October 27, 2018
Anonymity and Sobriety
"As the A.A. groups multiplied, so did anonymity problems. Enthusiastic over the spectacular recovery of a brother alcoholic, we'd sometimes discuss those intimate and harrowing aspects of his case meant for his sponsor's ear alone. The aggrieved victim would then rightly declare that his trust had been broken. When such stories got into circulation outside of A.A., the loss of confidence in our anonymity promise was severe. It frequently turned people from us. Clearly, every A.A. member's name - and story, too - had to be confidential, if he wished."
Tuesday, October 2, 2018
Twelve Traditions
On Sunday morning – the last
day of the [1950 International] Convention – I found those Twelve Traditions
still on my mind. Each of them I saw is an exercise in humility that can guard
us in everyday A.A. affairs and protect us from ourselves. If A.A. were really
guided by the Twelve Traditions, we could not possibly be split apart by
politics, religion, money, or by any old-timers who might take a notion to be
big shots.
With none of us throwing our weight around in public, nobody could
possibly exploit A.A. for personal advantage, that is sure. For the first time I
saw A.A.’s anonymity for what it really is. It isn't just something to save
us from alcoholic shame and stigma; its deeper purpose is actually to keep those
fool egos of ours from running hog wild after money and public fame at A.A.'s
expense.
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