Yes, at times we need to be firm, assertive:
those times when we change, when we acquire a new behavior, when we need
to convince others and ourselves we have rights.
Those times are not permanent. We may need to get
angry to make a decision or set a boundary, but we can't afford to stay
resentful. It is difficult to have compassion for one who is
victimizing us, but once we've removed ourselves as victims, we can find
compassion.
Our path, our way, is a gentle one, walked in
love - love for self, love for others. Set boundaries. Detach. Take care
of ourselves. And as quickly as possible, do those things in love.
Today, and whenever possible. God let me be
gentle with others and myself. Help me find the balance between
assertive action taken in my own best interests, and love for others.
Help me understand that at times those two ideas are one. Help me find
the right path for me.
From The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie
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